What was your first significant other, and did you ever have any spanking encounters with them?

I figure this would make a nice topic. I'd love to share myself, but I don't got any. Funnily enough, as a spanking fetishist, I don't do a whole lot of spanking. I had a girlfriend in high school, but we never did anything.

Eventually I'll get to it. But for now, I'm curious as to hear stories and experiences from other, more lucky folks

I suppose I was one of the lucky ones. I was embarrassingly late getting a girlfriend but I picked one who was amenable to a bit of spanking, though perhaps not quite as much into it as I was. We didn't discuss it in advance but one day I pulled her cautiously over my knee for a couple of light swats and was very relieved when she didn't slap my face but only grinned. We then went out for a meal and she made a point of misbehaving throughout (she was quite a lot younger than me) with predictable consequences when we got home. Probably the happiest evening of my entire life!

Brian, during the school play taming of the shrew.

He does the famous spanking scene with me and is rubbish so I make him do extra rehearsals with me. After a few goes he got the idea better. Anyhow, after the opening night, I could tell he had really enjoyed it and asked if he'd like t take it a stage further. Confused, he said I think so. I undressed for him and laid overs knee and let him spank me for 10 minutes, sadly the sex afterwards lasted only a fraction of that. I let him recover then did it again with far better results. We were together for a few months after that before going our separate ways to university. In the end he became an excellent spanker and not a bad sex partner too.

The play wasn't 'Taming of the Shrew', but otherwise that was exactly the plot of my story 'Only Acting'!

I dated my now wife in high school and we had a game where we'd keep a tally point system on each other for minor transgressions (bad language, talking badly about a friend, etc). We then would exchange spanks (over clothes) one a week. They were very symbolic, and it didn't go far.

Later, when we dated again after college...the spankings became much more of an event. While kids and life have gotten in the way recently, we still switch when we can.

My first girlfriend was an inscrutable cutie with whom it took forever just to get a first kiss. I learned a lot from that girl though and recently learned she had passed away a few years ago without ever having married. But I was probably 15 at the time we dated.

After high school and several girlfriends later, a death in the family triggered a change in me and I decided that in college I would seek what I wanted rather than hiding or dancing around it. My first spanking from a girlfriend happened when I was about 19 and it was intense. Afterwards, no matter how a relationship went or ended I vowed to NEVER settle for a vanilla girlfriend no matter how pretty or how much I liked her. And it was the best decision I ever made.

Now I'm 64 and I could write a book of my past spanking adventures......but wait....if you tally up all the spanking stories I have here that are based on actual events, I think you'd have that book! LOL

When I was about 30 I lived had an apartment in a small college town. I had a girlfriend who was about 10 years younger than me and was a student at the local college. One night on a weekday I had just gotten home from work and she showed up at my apartment after she had been out drinking with some of her sorority sisters and said she was horny as hell and wanting to have sex. She I been having academic issues and had been placed on academic probation which meant she was required to attend tutoring classes/study hall a couple of evenings a week but had missed it missed it that day. As fate would have in, one of her tutors lived the the same apartment complex and saw her car when she got home. So we begun fooling around on the sofa when her tutor rang the doorbell. I let her in and she immediately began to scold her for missing her session and reminded her that was her final cut for the semester and if she missed again she could be expelled from school. Then out of the blue and in a sort of tongue-and-cheek manner she said, "What you need is a good spanking!" I had never broached the subject with her before even though I had been into spanking for most of my life. As per usual, I was afraid back in those days that bringing it up would probably be a good way to scare a girl off. But when her tutor made that comment as she was leaving, I blurted out, "Don't worry, she's going to get one later on tonight!" We all had a little laugh as the tutor left and I thought that was just wishful thinking on my part. But later on when we got to the bedroom and had undressed, I was putting on a condom and nearly fell over when she said, "What about that spanking you promised me?" So I sat on the edge of the bed, motioned for her to get over my knee. I began spanking her very lightly and the more she seemed to enjoy it the harder I spanked. She was a beautiful redhead with a milk white complexion and a gorgeous bottom which colored up quite nicely. Afterwards we had the best sex and either on of us had probably ever enjoyed. I spanked her several more times after that but at the end of the semester she flunked out and went back home of another state. We had planned to stay in touch and hopefully reconnect one day. But much to my chagrin, she died in an auto accident about a year later.

As I think I stated in a previous post, I suspect, I am one of the older readers here. And the following ois not probably the spanking encounter you mean but :-

My first girlfriend was often made babysit her younger sisters. One evening we met up after she had spent a few hours engaged in this unpaid babysitting and was complaining about both the babysitting and the behaviour of her sisters, stating that she had had to spank them. At the time, spanking was ubiquitous, so I wasn't that surprised but I was taken back a little by her transformation into a spanker rather than spankee. Only a few weeks earlier we had taken part in a protest against school corporal punishment and at that time she had complained about being caned in school for being late on a number of mornings so I did feel she was being a little hypocritical.

But no, there was no spanking between us. At the time , with us both subject to corporal punishment at school and at home ,we (or at least I ) didn't see anything remotely erotic about it.