Tom and I always get each other a gift. For instance, and these are from the traditional and/or modern list from the first dozen years of our marriage, for my:-
first he bought be a copy of the Daily Mirror newspaper - when rolled up it made of a wonderful playful spanking.
Second he bought me some cotton panties and had great pleasure in spanking them and taking them off again afterwards!
Third - leather - a leather soled pair of slippers - Divine. Much used, but never worn - go figure

Fourth, linen - a pair of linen really comfy cream trousers, I slipped on some red panties and they were clearly visible through the fabric and made an irresistible target for his hand
Fifth - wood - a hairbrush - ohh, that did sting.
Sixth - Iron - a steel ruler - that hurt too
Seventh - wool - a very short knitted dress which pulled up very easily once across his knee
Eight - lace panties
Nineth - A willow witch. Nt a cane fan, but it was a special day and he did bend me over a tree in the woods to spank me which was beautiful
Tenth - Tin - that stumped him, so he bought me a tin opener but spanked me anyhow which was fine by me, it's the thought that counts
Eleventh - steel - a metallic paddle, enjoyed that more than I expected to
Last but not least twelfth - silk - an exquisite pair pf pure silk French knickers, or easy feelers as I call them. So tasteful for the spanking and allowed easy access for his fingers too!
Happy anniversary Tom, look forward to next month for my next one!