How do you see it?

Females topping i assume are not negatively affecting his business financially, so guess he would have not need/interest in changing.

Perhaps i am reading incorrectly into the situation, but could not the originally feminist phrase 'Behind every great man there's a great woman' be a factor, perhaps his likings or expressions are coloured in some way by that of his lady, or indeed he himself just has liking for female led interactions.

I can only comment from a UK perspective but in these woke, politically correct etc etc times, the 'selling' of Fm/Ff topping is more acceptable than Mf to those who get offended by such matters

Anyway i concur with this Gentleman's view "he believes guys are more often the uglier, seedier side of life that instigates the vulgarities of sexuality, suggestive that women are purer and don't have any darker desires themselves" a very wise and insightful man indeed..........

I guess to sum up i take the view his house his rules.

I think this south-eastern American gent and I would have very little in common. So I would start talking to him about Jung's anima archetypes to explain how this affects our views and interactions with the opposite sex.

Somewhere along the line, after a few drinks, we might establish that he is caught somewhere between Eve (object of desire), Helen(worldly achiever, intelligent and talented) and Mary (righteous and a paragon of virtue). I, on the other had fully embrace the Sophia archetype (wise and fully human, equal and not at all an object). At this point he would probably tell me I am talking a load of limey shite and chuck me out.

In other words, I have no idea, what is the answer to the question

...BURN THE WITCH! BURN THE WITCH!!!
Perhaps that's a little heavy handed...
SPANK THE WITCH! SPANK THE WITCH!!!
(I jest. Thanks for agreeing that men are the root of all evil)


Uh... thank you for nothing then.