Having a spanking fetish which involves two people who know and trust one another giving hand spankings is incredibly safe, far more so than playing any kind of sport. Use implements, or start playing in clubs and suchlike and the risk element increases slightly, but not much as long as you're careful. Bring in knives, ropes, gags, whips, etc and you need to know the people you are playing with well, their skill levels and mental health as the risk climbs. And I personally think there are places you really, really shouldn't go because there is a real risk of ending up with lasting injury or death, but in the wider BDSM world it's apparently bad form to criticise ANY activity entered into by consenting adults. I wouldn't like to see stories which deal with themes such as choking play. |