Spanking Sites Decline?

I, too, met a number of women through the old free personals website and miss it greatly. I also exchanged old CP mags and videos and corresponded with some good people. I've run two CP-related websites for over fifteen years and certainly tastes have changed in that time. Realistic stories and true-life accounts remain popular but I'm sensing people are now looking for something more, or at least different. Could this be cyber spanking? Would a particularly good system of role play be of interest? I don't know, but hopefully something new will come along. I've checked this site's chat room on a number of occasions but it seems poorly used and I don't really understand why. Can someone enlighten me? Some CP websites now attract as many if not more women than men, and again I'm not sure why that is. Perhaps some ladies here could say what appeals and what offends?