Yes, they are declining due to the reasons mentioned. I myself have thought of closing down a few times, but perhaps because I blog about more than just spanking itself, I find having a public forum therapeutic. So usually if anything, I just take a break and then resume when the inspiration returns.
All that said, all one needs to do is visit any spank-blog on Google's "Blogger" and you will still find hundreds of places where people can interact. Some are very specific and cater to a particular niche, while others are very general and even lighthearted.
The things that frustrate a blog owner are:
1: lack of participation. (this is #1 for a reason. A blog takes work and it is very frustrating when a thoughtful teaser post gets little reaction. So the main reason for blogs disappearing is rooted in the public itself)
2: phonies. ( it is disheartening to try to have a discussion when you start feeling like some of the few people you are dealing with are in no way what they pretend to be)
3: sex-cruisers. (almost as frustrating as phonies are guests who are just quickly cruising around looking for something to jerk off to rather than think about.)
4: boredom. (after a while, even the most thoughtful bloggers run out of new things to discuss......or just feel like 'what's the point?' )
For these reasons, people who run places or host forums, just loose steam and call it a day eventually. And personally, I get tired of the attitude from a certain type of visitor that I am there to entertain them no matter what. My blog was always intended to be a place where like-minded people could interact freely over a variety of topics....and hopefully do so cleverly, in the old salon style. (I have often made reference to the Algonquin Round Table as an aspiration.) But the sad fact is people are just not that clever anymore. Social media has ruined the art of conversation and turned interactions into bland narcissistic revelations over what someone likes or does with little to no depth or analysis. It's like a bunch of little kids at a pool all yelling at everyone to "look at me, look at me" with no thought to look at anyone else.
