Our popup messaging system isn't really intended for role play - I'd suggest using a chat room for interactive role play or failing that, email exchanges. I should also point out, based on the experience of running several spanking-related sites over the years, that for some strange reason there are a whole heap of men who indulge in role play and chat who pretend to be women. I've no idea why that should be the case, and you may not care, but it's very much the case.
