Burgundy:
PhilK:
'Those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.' So true
I agree with the sentiment, but... my bosses would mind, and they kinda matter
You're lucky, though. It would be nice if we could all just be out, but I don't think society is there yet
That of course is same for so much in life, personal and professional life can be separate, and some say should be.
The US military in 90s till 2011 had their "Don't ask, don't tell" policy with regard to same sex relationships by serving personnel, in other words they sadly did not condone the relationships, but as long as you did not tell then they did not take action against you, only positive was you could not be 'outed' or harassed, unless you openly were involved in same sex activity.
Thankfully the UK allowed gay and lesbians to serve in 2000.
So the quote 'Those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.' is not a cover all, but any sensible adult would not raise a matter that would offend others if it unavoidable.
Any adult who does the above are seeking confrontation, unless it is as a LSF member informed me when i used the quote previously, 'outing' themselves to a close family member who did not receive the news well, that must be awful situation to find self in.