Ah, the old and favored question.
Like many here, I was fascinated early on, looked at comics, read stories, and surreptitiously checked the dictionary. It does seem to be brought on by a culture that enshrouds in embarrassment certain aspects of our lives (bottoms, sexuality, bottoms, etc [did I mention bottoms?]) and then brazenly breaches its own boundaries in certain situations. I've not read an anthropological study on the phenomenon of fetishes, but I imagine such a thing exists for those eager enough to seek it out.
I was one of those who was spanked as a child though rarely. I was also witness to several. Neither of these did I much like. It was when I was alone with other children and the subject came up, or the game was suggested that I was able to indulge my fetish (not realizing, of course, what it was at the time.)
It's still something I have trouble talking about in real life, though my girl friend and I indulge. I couldn't talk to my parents about it certainly.
-LK |