CarolinaPaddler My only IRL spanking experience, as a top, was with the only real girlfriend I've ever had. That was way back when I was 22-23 years old. She and I worked together, and ... she asked me out. I accepted.
She was 17 years old.
She was a virgin.
But, hey, she asked me out, and I agreed, and we were together for a year and a half.
I eventually took her virginity, and also introduced her to spanking. And ... she was a wonderful bottom. Holy crap, her pain tolerance was amazing.
20 years later, long after we had split, I realized that she wasn't a spanko. She was a young girl who was in love with me, submitting to what she thought she had to, and I was taking advantage. And I am ashamed. My only excuse is that I was a young dumbass who didn't know what he was doing. I was all, "Oh wow! She let's me spank her!"
And that is largely why I have been both sexually celibate, and inactive with spanking. I'm simply not going to enter a relationship that does not include consensual spanking.
And that's what I'm planning to tell my mom. She has asked me more than once why I'm not married and providing her with grandchildren. Well, mom, spanking is important to me, and I am not going to marry a woman who doesn't want to be spanked. Really, this is not a bomb you just drop on the pretty girl you just met. "Oh hey, lets have sex, and by the way, I'd like to spank the daylights out of you." |