RikSpanks:
If she only knew how much her own spanking technique (when I was younger) influenced, and continues to influence the way I write spankings ...
Well, if you're going to "come out" to her, you might as well come out all the way. She might feel a bit guilty for "bending" you that way, but numerous studies and even questionnaires and polls here on the LSF page seem to indicate that being spanked or not as a kid is not an indicator of whether or not you become a spanko (top
or bottom, or a switch) as an adult. Many that practice TTWD were never spanked. I can remember very few spankings as a child (and they
were as a
child). I couldn't have been more than five or six at my last actual spanking and it was quite brief, although, as I remember, it
did hurt...