I think in this day and age you can find a spanking group in every major city. There is one here in San Diego and I've attended several spanking parties either locally with just our group or we'll go up to L.A. where they might have a party including several southern California spanking groups. I have always had fun whether I got spanked or not. The people running it go out of their way to make sure you feel welcome and comfortable. If your really into it I recommend attending a party. If you can afford it Shadowlane has a convention, that's right, a spanking convention every year in Vegas |