Getting back to feminine spanking models who dish out the discipline, I'm highly appreciate of Miss Sephie from Cherry Cheeks:
https://www.spankingtube.com/video/84717/john-forced-to-submithttps://www.spankingtube.com/video/81500/missy-s-real-sessionAs can be observed in these two video clips (among my favorites of hers) from SpankingTube, she's equally at home spanking males and females--"John" (whom she's apparently had a falling out with) in the bent-forward position while employing two large, solid wooden paddles and "Missy" over her knee with a somewhat smaller yet still quite effective round-headed one.
Miss Sephie's stern, straightforward lecturing has brevity and doesn't interfere with her administering a thorough bare-assed shellacking to her hapless spankee. She uses other implements, however I believe that her true expertise lies in soundly applying wooden paddles to deserving derrieres of either gender. None of her spankings strike me (pun not intended) as unrealistic, I don't envision her punitive victims as 'acting' via their distressed reactions to being walloped by the young woman, plus her forgiving and comforting of the sobbing "Missy" also seems heartfelt.
Obviously, I'd be greatly gratified to be in the situations of both "John" and "Missy" in these video clips, fantasywise anyway...

--C.K.