Hold on - I can't see that anyone has actually stated what the unacceptable word was, that led to the ejection of visitors. Conservative? Wednesday (for Sheffield United fans)? Failure (for motivational speakers)? Ahmaddiya (for Sunni Muslims)? I guessed it to be the C word (not Chelsea, strangely), but the discussion has centred round the F word (not Failure). I remember once assuring my boss that I never used the word fuck except to describe the sexual act.
Tiptopper's example I've heard as a Second World War story. Sailor's ship docks after a convoy and he goes on leave. When he returns, his friend asks, "Did you have a good time on leave?"
"Did I have a good fucking time on fucking leave?" he replies. "I get fucking leave, I leave the fucking ship, I get on a fucking bus, I go to my fucking home, I open the fucking door, I go up the fucking stairs, and what do I find but my fucking wife in fucking bed with the fucking lodger having intimate relations!"
I think there is a distinction between Good Taste and self-censorship. Good Taste implies a common, conventional idea of what is acceptable - so an artist or an editor may cut something out for fear of offending what most people (or most influential people) consider to be good taste. Self-censorship includes the writer cutting something out for fear of unfavourable reactions, but also a purely personal feeling of being uneasy with what you've written. |