njrick:
Incredibly stupid, apparently. What works for a spanking story is a terrible (even criminal) lapse in judgment in real life. (and please - nobody say something stupid like "maybe she deserved it").
And I was just going to say something like that....
I don't know much about Australian Navy and this special case, but I think it could be very easily seen as a story of a broken relationship and the revenge of a young woman. It seems to me that they were together over a year, that she visited his cabin many times (is there any woman in the world who isn't aware what it means to visit a man in his room?) and he visited her in her home (why did she let him in?). Women are very often attracted by older men, especially if they are in a leading position. Why was she isolated from the other women? That's a normal reaction if one colleague starts an affair with the boss.
S/M relationships are risky and especially the men are always in danger of being accused of assaults. If a spanked woman wants revenge for any reason, she can always claim assault and it's not hard to proof the evidence for the "victims". Even if the couple made a contract, she can always claim, that she didn't agree on one certain spanking or was forced to sign the contract. That means, that in real life a written contract in front of a witness would be necessary for a couple everytime they are engaging in a spanking. But that is taking away most of any romantic feeling and if you are in love with somebody the persisting on a written contract looks easily like mistrust.
One can of course say, that you should never start an affair with subordinates, but I think the working place is the place where 2/3rd of all relationships are beginning. I find it therefore quite difficult to judge in such very private cases. I think even the judges will have some difficulties to find the truth.