Spanking Big, Sloppy,or "Unattractive" Women

Personally I don't care what the other person looks like, if they are a fellow spanko should it make a difference to me...I don't think so. My wife thinks I am "interesting" looking, what that means I think is not good looking but different from the regular. Is it good or bad, I really don't mind either way as I know she loves me for who I am.

I would hope the world would grow beyond what a person should look like and start concentrating on what a person is. Thin people, fatter people, tall people, short people...who cares as long as they either leave me alone and let me get on with living or are fellow spankos and want to share stories.

There is an option on this site for authors to put their pictures on the author pages, I declined for identification purposes but if everyone judged a story on what the writer looked like, I would likely have 3 views to my credit for the past 9 months of submitting stories.

I don't describe the physical characterics of most of my story people, most of the time it is not needed for the story and most of the time I tend to skip over those parts in other stories I read as my own imagination gives the character a body I choose to give and not the author. Sometimes physical descriptions are needed for a story but rarely, and what the author may consider as beautiful or well endowed may make the person rather plain or unattractive to me.

What about DSK (Dominique Strauss-Khan)? He thinks he is attractive to the fair sex.

I don't know why, but in most M/F movies that I have seen, the women are not bad looking with fairly well proportioned bodies. Men age, body and face are whatever was available to the director. I don't watch F/M movies so I don't know if the casting is reversed.

Its not. If anything, the men in F/M tend to be even uglier.

I have a personal rule in my spanking fiction: if a character is to participate in a spanking scene, said character must be described as someone who I wouldn't mind looking like (if male) or as someone who I wouldn't mind looking at (if female).

Yes, I could imagine him as a strict headmaster
But unfortunately my fantasies don't include being raped.


It depends, if the movies are professional movies or amateur movies. The women in home-made movies are very often not that good looking. The men are always bad looking. Maybe it's harder to find handsome men in general?

Being one of the big men, myself, I can relate to those of us who do not look nearly as good as those we sometimes desire. From my own experiences, I can definitely say that size does not matter (I tell myself that for lots of reasons). I have enjoyed spanking a woman who weighed about 110 pounds (although she had this unhealthy obsession with keeping her butt tiny--not a great turn-on for me) and I've enjoyed spanking a woman who weighed in the neighborhood of 165. It wasn't about the attractiveness or weight for me; it was about finding someone with whom to play--no mean feat in the cornfields of stuffy church-laden Iowa. I get just as excited over a woman with a good body and butt as the next neanderthal-like male, but I've also discovered that no amount or quality of sex can make you overlook that your partner is an air-headed Barbie doll.

I suppose that it's our society that places an incredible body as being the pinnacle of attractiveness. That's too bad, really. As a chef, I've seen the women who come through the lines who eat the most unappealing crap because it has the lowest fat and carb counts. My most favorite activity is to tempt them with wondrous dessert creations from the kitchen and chuckle gleefully inside when I convince them to take one because I know that they will scarf it down and then feel guilty all day long. Yes, I have issues with being cruel to women, I know.

One of the great attractions of spanking from my perspective is that I do not care what race, creed, religion or physical properties my top possesses. All I care is that she puts me over her knee and spanks me like my primary school teachers and other ladies in authority did in my formative years. They were confident in their authority and the spanking occasions became pieces of theatre in which many of my emotions were displayed - as well as my poor bare bottom!!!

So you have a very large, flat nose, are short and heavily-built with no waist and a strong ribcage, strong, thick leg-bones and a very high voice?

Actually, that looks quite nice! My opinion of her goes up. Our old-style upper-class Conservatives used to say of a politician they respected, "He has bottom", and, for example, a leadership hopeful they didn't think up to it, "He doesn't have bottom". Apparently this translates as something between substance, depth and authority. Well, seems Angela Merkel has bottom.

Yes, not too bad for her age. And as far as I remember she showed quite a lot of humour when this picture was printed in the Sun. Btw. not one German newspaper reprinted it ever. It's still impossible to find the picture anywhere in the German net. So I really don't know if this actually was the original picture.

I can't answer that, as I'm not a Sun reader (the comedian Jasper Carrott reacted to the Sun recycling a lot of Irish jokes by turning them into Sun-reader jokes, eg, "How many Sun-readers does it take to change a light-bulb?"). However, I do remember some publicity about German official protests after the Sun had printed a picture of her under the heading "Big in the Bumdestag". It would not have printed one of Margaret Thatcher's bum, I think, for two reasons: (1), it worshipped her and (2) I can't imagine her getting into the situation of having it snapped (and probably the snapper would have got shot as a terrorist). Besides, her bum was probably greatly inferior to the Teutonic equivalent.