Spanking Big, Sloppy,or "Unattractive" Women

I may be starting a firestorm by bringing this up, but I think it is an interesting matter.
I am sure that when we watch spanking videos,or even read stories ,that the spankees invariably are always what our society deems attractive physical qualities in women? Trim,well-proportioned figures, usually young or if mature in great shape,in other words looking like fashion models.
Look at all the interest in discussing Hollywood celebs and which ones we'd like to spank or see spanked. Same thing. Or the feelings we have(that includes me) when we see a pretty young or mature but still with her looks and figure,woman who has a nice bottom and fantasize about it being spanked.
But how about if its a plumpish lady in too-tight slacks, or too-short shorts, or a bathing suit that exposes too much flab at the pool? Ever have a thought about seeing a paddle applied to what she has hanging out of her shorts or squeezing out of her swimsuit bottom?
There are lots of sites,including many Yahoo groups, devoted to what are called plumpers, BBWs, and the like. You'll see pictures of big fat girls in thongs. Would seeing a big fat girl in a thong make you want toturn your eyes away and flee? Or would the thought be how much she needs a paddle applied to what she is showing off?
The Yahoo group (and its a good one) Ashlees Corner recently ran a picture of a girl like that, nude, and with a sentence that said her spanker had only brought a small paddle. Pretty funny, IMO
And I have seen spanking stories about spanking as a motivation to lose weight.
I hope I am not personally offending anyone here who may be dealing with a weight issue. But I admit I am curious about people's feelings about spanking and those who do not match up to our society's (often unfair and unrealistic) standard of beauty. Personally I think big in the sense of rubenesque is far more attractive than skinny. A woman all skin and bones- you'd be afraid you'd shatter her pelvis if you spanked hard.
To take one example,there was all the interest in the Spankoverse about Paris Hilton being spanked. Might argue she needed it for her behavior, but not for her attractiveness. Compared to Shakira or Beyonce or even Britney Spears she does not have that degree of gorgeousness in the derriere department.

In my stories, the women are always what I deem physically attractive.

I'm not attracted to obese women, but I do prefer them with a little bit of chubbiness, especially when that manifests as voluptuousness. In my M/F and F/F stories, I always describe the subs (often at length) as having ghetto booties.

Maybe we should turn the whole debate around and examine reactions to being spanked by big, sloppy, or unattractive men?

flopsybunny
You missed out OLD, big, sloppy or unattractive

Certainly. This is what all but killed my interest in spanking videos. I really, really, really don't want to imagine myself as that balding, pasty, pot-bellied loser...

Being slightly serious for a minute, it does seem to go mostly one way... The men can be lots of things but they often still want a nubile 18yo sex maniac over their laps... Good luck to em.

I am a curvy woman and I know that my husband loves me anyway and would happily spank me all day long if he could. I have, due to serious health issues not the library crisps and booze, put on a fair amount of weight recently but I know it doesn't change how he feels about me.

I personally am not a fan of 'clothes hanger' women, they often tend to be vain, self absorbed and I don't like the look, so I have no wish to become one... Normal women... great... but then again, for a lot of people on this site, it is all about their fantasy, so if that fantasy is to spank/be spanked by a voluptuous woman, or a skinny one, that's fine by me too... I'm happy with my lot

Purely my personal opine but I find the standard of commercially available spanking videos in general to be pretty abysmal (for a whole variety of reasons) and over the years I've seen quite a lot of them.

P.S. This is NOT an invite for the spamming of commercial video sites!

I've been married to a plump lady for...well...forever! We are now "empty nesters" happily aging together. And yes, she still "turns me on". I wouldn't change a thing; not about our life together, and not about her.

Oh yes, I'm no great physical specimen myself.

All that said, the folks in my stories are usually younger and better looking than her or myself. Does that somehow make me a bad person?

Guy

That is a definite cheek!! What is wrong with 19yo's? Also being slightly serious I find my taste in women is unconventional. I used to have a thing about a French girl when I was about seventeen because she had teeth faintly like a vampire. A nicely rounded behind has always been a bonus but most of all I have been attracted to women with big noses! Lucky we are all different!

Only the balding, pasty pot-bellied winner! Seriously, there is a sub-set of spanking fantasy which precisely makes the men as unattractive (superficially, at least) as possible. Early Januses (I think) featured stories about a dedicated spanker who was short, fat, bald, bespectacled, with rather heavy, pudgy facial features: I think Hardcastle illustrated him. I suppose this increases the humiliation quotient.

What's wrong with big men, by the way? Apart from Arnold Schwarzenegger's acting talent?

In general I'm not attracted, in fantasy or fact, to fat women, though a huge bottom on a woman not generally fat can turn me on, and she cazn be just a bit plump. An older woman with a big, floppy bottom does not light my fires, though I suppose it would be quite amusing to have Angela Merkel spanked.