Real life experience

One amusing spanking incident I remember. In fact the only amusing spanking incident I remember because as we all know spanking is a terribly serious business!! I attended boys only schools but the last school I went to admitted girls in the sixth form. Reading alone in the library one afternoon a girl came in and sat next to me. She accused me of paying rather more attention to her friend than I did to her. At the end of a long exhausting conversation she asked me to spank her. Of course being an obliging chap I obliged. I know it seems like a fantasy but it was not. It was just an example of how strange life can be. In my fantasy she would have been spanking me! I suppose the thought of spanking a boy had never even occurred to her!! Anyway before I got properly into my stride we were caught red handed by the Head of the English department! Luckily, he merely gave us a stern lecture on the incorrect use of school library facilities! Well girls will be girls after all!

I've applied hand to bottom much more often than I've applied pen to paper to write spanking stories. I've only posted one story so far to the library. I've virtually always been the spanker and my spankees have always been adult women. I was involved in an extended kinky relationship during my college years and, since then, spanking has been a part of my social/sex life. At this point, I'm sure I've spanked more women (must be in the dozens) than I've been in serious relationships with. I've wielded every implement that I've written about. At one point, I was involved in a small local writing group and we performed field experiments together to help determine the physical details of our spanking stories. (How far away can a switch be heard striking a bare bottom? What stages can be observed in the marks of a caning? Etc.) Whether or not it helped our stories, it was certainly a lot of fun. Experience helps, but even so, I'd guess that a good writer with a strong imagination can write a better spanking story than a poor writer with plenty of experience.

As most of my friends on the site know I am a practicing Dominate in my corner of the U.S. I came to the LSF because 'short spanking fiction' was the way I discovered my kinkyness back in the day. What a treasure trove! I indulge frequently in what's generally referred to as 'Impact Play' in the scene. I have a passion for it and have rather been involved in practicing it in the last couple of weeks as some know and have consequently fallen way behind in my reading here. Grin!

Nevertheless, I hope more LSF'ers will make a contribution to this thread as it is endlessly fascinating to hear others talk about their pervy side. Thanks to all!

Grin!

I have given a few spankings. None very severe so far - just enough to turn the bottom pink for a little while - but still enough to qualify.

I have yet to experience it from the submissive angle (well, except from my parents as a kid), which I think is why I write mostly F/ fiction. Grass is always greener...