I have only posted one comment so far, which I will admit I felt I had to, in order to use the board freely. I have no wish just to be a lurker and very much appreciate the efforts that people make to supply the content on the site and the fact they give so freely of their time deserves recognition and feedback, so that they are motivated to keep it up, gain some validation, or may benefit from advice/input/feedback etc. However, I think the wording on the comment box makes it a little intimidating for first time comments, especially as it is such a specific thing for so many people that it is hard to be glowing if one detail wrecked it on a personal level, yet it seems totally unreasonable to say it should not have been there, or my preference is.... given that so many others may well really enjoy it and someone put a great deal of effort into writing it. I feel that those instances are about me and my preferences, not due to the writer and I would never want to make someone feel that their own take is inappropriate or unwelcome.
Several times I have wanted to post when I have really liked something but have felt quite shy. If it were possible to simply say I liked a story, I would have commented many times, from almost the very beginning. However I felt warned off that by the advice to posters. I have wondered why can't people start with a "good job" or other such quick comment, so that they can overcome their initial reticence at commenting at all. I think many people "lurk" due to a lack of confidence and that the site could be a little more helpful with that, especially given that people may have had negative experiences posting in other places in which cliques reign and posting seems very daunting (spanking or otherwise). Or maybe it is just me, but in any case, I do really appreciate people making the effort.
I even write myself, but having been shy about posting, I wouldn't be waiting on me spurring into action if I were a reader. I just wanted to say that some people take a wee bit more time feeling confident about things than others, but encouragement is better than restriction for the most part.
Or perhaps that is just me again, remembering where I am, maybe the punishment thing is the most effective. I have now posted twice in a day, so hey, it worked
