njrick:
For the purposes of spanking fiction, clarification that a "man" in a story is really a "trans man" (and even specifically a non-surgically altered trans man) seems unnecessary unless
a) the story deals with issues such an individual has to deal with (which in my mind, making them part of a spanking story trivializes them)If you're talking about the kind of spanking story that internet spanking stories typically are - a short story focused mainly on the spanking scene(s) - then yes, you're right. There isn't much room for in depth personal identity issues in that, gender related or otherwise, and they couldn't really be fit in without trivializing them. But there could be in a spanking novel that also has some seriously in depth character development. Which I've never encountered before, but I kind of sort of have it in mind to write one.
njrick:
or b) you have to get into genitalia (in which case I'm not interested).
And getting into genitalia usually doesn't fit in a spanking story either. Maybe in highly erotic ones, but the best erotic spanking stories keep that part toned down. I prefer the kind where the most explicit it gets is a mention of someone getting wet or hard, or simply describing the emotional impact of being aroused, over anything that goes into greater detail.
njrick:
My feelings on non-binary characters being featured in spanking stories may depend on the reasons. If it's a non-binary author exploring their (?) spanking interests, then I'm sympathetic, no matter what problems it causes for site management. If it's anything else - then my question to the author would be - why?
For me, it all started when a spanker character I wrote stubbornly refused to be a man or a woman. I tried writing the character both ways, and neither worked. Both seemed inauthentic. It finally dawned on me that this character was neither.
So, a non-binary character was born.
Later on, I wrote a story about a character with my screen name, Bramblewine (I'm planning to repost that one here). The character isn't real world me, but is kind of an alter ego. At first I didn't think about Bramblewine the character's gender at all, I just assumed, if an assumption had to be made, that she (?) was female, like me.
But then someone complimented me on the story and referred to the character as "she," and my brain rebelled. I realized that I was not thinking of that character as a she after all. Nor as a he. More likely non-binary.
In reality, I don't identify as non-binary at all. I'm cis female and not at all questioning. But in my fiction, non-binary characters turn up.
Does that mean I have a non-binary alter ego in my spanko identity? Maybe. I've heard of spankos who like to roleplay the opposite gender of their own when they participate in a spanking scene. It never would have occurred to me to do that, but maybe this writing non-binary characters is my version of spanko gender bending.