barretthunter:
Many people seem to react differently to real humiliation if it's F/F to how they react if it's M/F: some definitely find it more exciting, and probably also it's seen as slightly more acceptable, less dangerous in its implications. Somehow the dynamic of a crowd of cheering, jeering girls, for example, is different to a crowd of boys doing the same.
This is something that's plagued me. I really WANT to have as much creative freedom with M/F scenarios as I do with other pairings, but some deeply rooted sense of chivalry keeps getting in my way. I also find myself getting turned off by reading M/F stories that I'd have no problem with if the dom was female.
Its sexist, but there's not much I can do about it.