Scolding and rebuking

Can anyone recommend stories where there is a lot of detail given to the scolding and lecture before the spanking?

It adds a lot to the story.

Also to slightly change the subject - are there stories where there is a fair guardian/uncle figure spanking a teenager with fair set rules lots of scolding/verbal rebuking of the "young lady" or "young man" type?
That is another favourite scenerio of mine.

I am sure I am not the only lady who likes these things

I do a lot of this in the Spank Shop stories, and I think most of my stories feature use of the 'young man' and 'young lady' terms as I too quite enjoy the terms when delivering a scolding.

For your first question, I think most stories by Carolina Jim would qualify (they are strictly F/f, though).

Most of my stories have that element but you would probably especially enjoy the Shelly Brooks stories or the Heather and Ashley tales.

I feel that scolding adds a lot to the scene, and if well done the spanking need not be as severe to produce the results the spanker wishes to achieve.

Cannot agree Often The spanking should be more than the scolding. Scold yes, after the spanking.

Are there any suggestions for M/F stories or M/f stories like this?

Perhaps my "A Note from School 1" would do as an M/f-alternative.