jools:
I do agree with what you say there to a degree, BlackrockBoss. However you will always get those who internalise and act upon what they have seen or read in fiction. For example very young kids have jumped off roofs in Superman capes and killed/maimed themselves believing they can fly because Superman does.
Mmm...I think its likely that those kids would have hurt themselves some other way even if they'd never seen Superman. Since human prehistory we've told stories about people performing superhuman feats, and I suspect that there's always been that one kid who hurt himself trying to play the part of Hercules or Thor...and even without fictional icons to emulate, little boys love climbing tall rocks and running heedlessly through the woods.
I agree that art can have a very insidious effect on culture (particularly in regards to the normalization of behaviors previously seen as unusual or extreme), but little kids are kind of an outlier.
jools:
Young males (I am referring to older teens here) watch porn and then they get the unrealistic notion that real women should behave like porn stars in the bedroom and engage in all sorts of debasing activities like they love it!
Here I think you're on to something. Never having slept with a teenaged boy, I can't comment on how porn effects
their expectations and attitudes toward sex, but women are also effected by this. I had an affair with a woman (well out of her teens, mind you) who seemed to base her entire sexual persona off of porn films. She put on this ridiculously high pitched voice, narrated everything either of us did, and asked me to do inane, showy things that you would only ever do to please a voyeur.
I wonder if she did that on her own initiative, or if what I saw was the result of past lovers asking/pushing her to be that way. Either way, it was awkward as all hell and not terribly enjoyable.
jools:
I personally, consider fiction vs reality a very grey area at times.
I would generally agree with this statement. I don't think its the artist's responsibility to make sure that their audience knows fantasy from reality, though. It seems more reasonable to ask that the readers themselves exercise common sense when allowing their reading/watching material to inform their worldview.