njrick:
c) Click either "Female" or "Male" for "spanker" (you'll need to do separate searches
A small correction: It's not necessary to do seperate searches. For "spanker" you can click both Male and Female and get all the stories that have either. If you want to you can even click everything for "spanker", Male, Female, Both and Unknown and you will get all the stories that have any type of spanker(s).