Always been a spanker, but even as a youngster in my early teens my fantasies revolved around ME spanking some girl.....(once I had a crush on a sexy history teacher, boy did she get spanked on a regular basis).....usually one of the girls at school i fancied at the time. When other boys were imagining getting their hands down a girls knickers, or undoing her bra, I had moved straight past that and I was imagining pulling her panties down, bending her over my knee and spanking her. I never got to the bit when the spanking was over, nature had taken its course by then and I had lost interest, so i don't know if i would have been loving or stern at that point in time.
When it was my turn to be the one doing the bending over for a dose of the slipper or strap at school I was not in the slightest bit excited, more bloody terrified if i am honest. And that is because it hurt, with a very big capital H!!! The slipper was applied in 6's, the strap in 3's....and you only needed one dose. However I can remember getting 12 with the slipper on a few ocassions. Amazingly, there was no requirement for parents to be told about punishments, and so as far as my Mum and Dad were concerned I was as good as gold!!
Now don't get me wrong I deserved everyone of the punishments i received, the first was when I had been at the secondary school (age 11 to 16) for exactly one week. The last when I was 15 with about 3 weeks to go till the year was over. Then i was into the 6th form and corporal punishment was over...thanks goodness!!
Getting the slipper or strap was just one of the risks of breaking the rules, simple...dont get caught...no-one ever complained about the fact they were punished, but we all moaned bitterly about how much it bloody hurt!
Incidentally the girls did not get spanked or slippered. In those days they were considered too delicate I suppose....of course we all know that is absolute nonsense, most of them can take a damn good spanking...well many of the girls i have known can!
As to the stern or loving after a spanking, I am a bit of both. In truth I am a soft hearted spanker, don't get me wrong, bottoms go very red indeed and my hand is a well honed weapon (! sound like a kung foo master) but afterwards is usually for loving and making up....preferably with tears and laughs, and of course kisses!
Cheers
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