I'm all for humiliation, but only in very specific ways that I like. (Just like everyone else here, of course.)
One specific way I like is that humiliation is the exclusive prerogative of the spanker to dole out, but not anyone else present - they haven't earned it. Where do they get off, those free-loaders??
So I don't like it when the spankee is laughed at and made a spectacle of in front of other people, as in your original example, of getting caned in front of the whole class. I don't like it if the spanking opens up the spankee to public ridicule, thereby lowering their social status, possibly permanently, compared to their peers. (I know a lot of people do like 'in-front-of-the-class' spankings, I'm not making a judgement. I'm just describing what it is that I don't like about it...)
Surrendering every iota of decorum, self-respect, and self-control to the spanker for the duration of the spanking? Check, all good. Putting the spankee's dignity up for sale to everyone with a dollar to spare, who did nothing to earn the right to humiliate them? That makes me cringe.
But you know, that's just, like, my opinion and stuff. |