Patron ... 'I thanked someone for their comment and was told that was against the rules'
This is not against the rules by any means and never was. Not sure where you got the info from, but far from the truth. When one first starts commenting the admins check the comments out for a short time to make sure they are appropriate, but after that they generally appear as soon as posted.
Commenting on any story is a great compliment to the author, and I rarely miss responding to a comment. I will say if I get no response after say a dozen comments I tend to put those authors on the lower end of my selections to read. Maybe they don't like my comments or whatever, but please tell me one way or the other. If you don't like my comments tell me so I won't comment again, or will even withdraw the comment if you are offended.
Thanks to all who comment and to those who respond. This is a great site and one that deserves our respect and activity no matter how limited that is for each individual.
CS